HADAWAY AND DENTON
by Hadaway & Denton
5 min What are the first steps I should take after the death of a loved one?
The first steps after the death of a loved one can be difficult, but it’s important to take immediate action. Begin by notifying close family members and friends. This ensures that everyone who needs to know is informed and can start making their own arrangements if necessary. Next, you’ll need to obtain a death certificate from the attending physician or coroner. This legal document is essential for all subsequent arrangements. Finally, contact a funeral directors like Hadaway & Denton. We are available 24/7 to help you start planning the funeral and offer support throughout this challenging time.Where will the deceased be kept until the day of the funeral?
At Hadaway & Denton, we have a mortuary on-site in Ashford where the deceased will be respectfully and securely kept until the day of the funeral. Our facilities are designed to ensure the utmost care and dignity for your loved one during this period. Family members are welcome to visit their loved ones at any time, providing a comforting opportunity to say goodbye in a private and serene setting.How do I choose between cremation and burial?
Choosing between cremation and burial is a deeply personal decision that depends on several factors, including the deceased's wishes, religious beliefs, family traditions, and financial considerations. Cremation is generally less expensive and offers more flexibility regarding the final resting place of the ashes. Burial, on the other hand, provides a permanent gravesite for family and friends to visit. It’s important to consider what will bring the most comfort and peace to you and your family during this time. We can provide detailed information on both options to help you make an informed decision.What is the difference between direct cremation and traditional cremation?
Direct cremation and traditional cremation differ mainly in terms of the services included. Direct cremation is a simple and cost-effective option where the body is cremated shortly after death without a formal ceremony or viewing. This option is often chosen for its simplicity and lower cost. Traditional cremation, on the other hand, includes a formal funeral service and often a viewing or visitation period before the cremation. This allows for a more traditional farewell and the opportunity for family and friends to gather and pay their respects.When do I get my loved one's ashes?
After the cremation process is complete, the ashes of your loved one will be prepared and returned to you in either a complimentary scatter tube or an urn that you will have pre chosen. Typically, this process takes about one to two weeks. We will keep you informed and coordinate with you to ensure the ashes are received at a time and place that is convenient and respectful. We are committed to handling this aspect with the utmost care and dignity, providing you with the necessary support and information throughout the process.What to do with ashes after cremation?
After cremation, there are several meaningful options for handling the ashes. Many families choose to keep the ashes in an urn, which can be displayed at home or alternatively, ashes can be scattered in a location that held special significance to the deceased. Some families opt for burial in a cemetery plot or memorial garden. Other creative options include incorporating ashes into jewellery, creating a memorial reef, or even sending them into space. We can provide guidance on these options to help you choose a fitting tribute.How can I personalise the funeral service?
Personalising the funeral service is a beautiful way to honour the unique life of your loved one. You can choose meaningful music, readings, and poems that reflect their personality and beliefs. Encourage family and friends to share eulogies and stories that celebrate their life. Creating photo collages or slideshows can visually capture cherished memories. Incorporating favourite flowers, colours, or hobbies into the service can also add a personal touch. At Hadaway & Denton, we go above and beyond to accommodate your wishes and help plan a service that truly reflects your loved one's spirit.Can family members or friends carry the coffin?
Yes, family members or friends can carry the coffin, a practice known as pall-bearing. This act can be a profound way to participate in the service and show love and respect. We can guide you on how to coordinate this and ensure that those who wish to participate are well-prepared and comfortable with the responsibility.Can the funeral cortege go via a favourite route or place of interest?
Absolutely, the funeral cortege can take a favourite route or pass by a place of significance to the deceased. This can be a touching way to honour their life and memories. Whether it’s a family home, a favourite park, or any other meaningful location, We will work with you to plan the route and ensure that the procession pays tribute in a special way.Can I put keepsakes in the coffin?
Yes, you can place keepsakes in the coffin. Many families find comfort in adding personal items such as letters, photographs, or small mementos that were significant to the deceased. These keepsakes can serve as a final gesture of love and remembrance.Can I plan a funeral if my loved one is not religious?
Certainly, you can plan a funeral for a loved one who was not religious. Non-religious ceremonies can be just as meaningful and can focus on celebrating the person's life and achievements. These services can include personal stories, favourite music, and other elements that reflect the individual's personality and values.How do I plan a wake?
Planning a wake involves organising a gathering where family and friends can come together to remember and celebrate the life of the deceased. Typically held after the funeral service, a wake offers a more relaxed setting for loved ones to pay their respects and share memories. To begin, choose a meaningful location such as a home, community hall, pub, restaurant, or a favourite spot of the deceased. Arrange for food and beverages to ensure guests are comfortable and well-provided for. Set up a memory table adorned with photos and personal items that tell the story of your loved one's life. Incorporate music, readings, or shared memories to add a personal touch and encourage guests to reflect on and celebrate the life of the deceased. We can assist in coordinating these details to ensure the wake is a meaningful and heartfelt event. Our goal is to provide a space for friends and family to gather, support one another, and honour the life of their loved one.How do I handle the legal and administrative aspects?
Handling the legal and administrative aspects after a death involves several important steps. First, you will need to obtain multiple copies of the death certificate for legal and financial matters. Next, locate the will and follow the instructions regarding the deceased’s estate. Notify relevant institutions such as banks, insurance companies, and government agencies. We can provide guidance and support throughout this process, ensuring that all necessary steps are completed efficiently and with care.Final thoughts
At Hadaway & Denton, we are committed to providing compassionate and personalised funeral services. If you have any further questions or need assistance with funeral arrangements, please do not hesitate to contact us. We are here to support you every step of the way.
